My Ibiza bust up!
So you all know how much I love a good old sesh in Ibiza! How doesn’t!
I’m going to go straight to the bust up and then tell you about ibiza itself later on!
I came to ibiza with Ashley, you all know Ashley. My gay “best friend” which for those of you which know me you would know this friendship has long sailed. Back in January this year I tried to terminate this friendship. I was avoiding him and generally just trying to cut him out.
Around mid January Ashley had a heavy weekend of drugs and ended up left in an alley in London covered in shit and lost his car. Feeling sorry for himself he went to a family member and said he thought he had a problem. Now, let’s back track again.
Ashley is the person that when one of our friends came out as transgender his first reaction was “she got more likes than me on fb, this isn’t fair, I came out gay and only got 19 likes”
WTF! Is this kid for real! This person (our friend) has came out as transgender a huge emotional video witch we learned so much from and all he’s worried about is a fucking like on Facebook!
So at Christmas one of his friends started going to quite a few drag shows and started to wear a little makeup, Ashley said he was concerned for him, was worried that he would be going down that line.
All the attention turned to this other person. You see where is this going right.
So he had this heavy weekend and had a huge downer, Sunday night he’s bumming hard and goes to family to say he has a problem.
To which we all get the phone calls, I got round to see him.
You know when you look at someone and you can just see in their face they are proud of themselves. Full attention back onto them.
I genuinely was disgusted with him.
He said he’s been injecting meth, anyone that’s ever seen someone inject, even once, will know they state of their arms straight away, not even a fucking scratch on his arm; not a blood spot, nothing. I knew he was lying. If anything he’s probably Been sniffing Coke and getting high on poppers ?
Anyways so mr I’m feeling sorry for myself is sitting there feeling sorry ?
I made the effort and left.
The following week I checked in on him and with every check saw the lies. This person has grated on me for nearly a year and when you can see the lies it’s even harder. He went to see a counsellor who even told him he didn’t have an addiction he just needed to get out of the Friday and Saturday going out vibe!
This was all it was! He enjoyed going out with probably the wrong group of people!
After this the counsellor says she doesn’t need to see him any more. I this process I’ve checked up and done my bit.
His family has asked to keep him busy at the weekends which I did! In fact I actually stopped working for nearly 3 weeks to go round check on him keep his occupied of a weekend, have him stay over at the weekend so we knew where he was.
For me weekends are where I make my money! Specially cam! But you know me…always trying to kept others!
So three weeks of this and then one Saturday evening I ask ask to come round for drinks, he doesn’t want to? says he doesn’t want to drink because he wants to behave! That’s fine! I sit in by myself. Feeling like a bit of a loner and a little down. I don usually need people but when I ask for company I need it, but I understood that he needed to behave. Then all of sudden I get a snap chat off of his friend, you know, the one who likes to wear makeup, with pictures of him and Ashley having cocktails!
This guy has got to be joking! Giving me all that shit that he doesn’t want to drink etc
Seriously, some fucking friend! For me this was the icing on the cake! I’ve been trying to end this friendship for such a long time!
I pick him up on it and have ago! I said to him how he made me feel and how I seem to be the only one who ever cares and yet when I need someone no one including him is never there!
He responded with “I’m a drug addict you can’t have ago at me” and then went on to be Nast and vindictive. Even as low as to mention my mum and how she didn’t even want me… Can I just state here. I messaged him once and nothing nasty just how he made me feel but the second anyone picks him up on something he is a Nasty vindictive little rat.
Now I don’t want to stereotype but is this his gay side coming out ? Because not even girls as as nasty as this, and it’s always the gay guys that’s seem to be nasty, like girls will be bitch but gays just seem to claw .. Funny thing is, he thinks the mother thing bothers me… And it’s really doesn’t. Since being away from my mother my whole life has improved…
Maybe it’s because his family moved him out the house because he was frowned upon by his father? Maybe because he’s so hurt by not having approval from his family he thinks other care? Nope sorry!
Anyways times goes on and we continue to argue but this is the killer I had brought him concert tickets for Christmas which I really wanted to go to! ?
So I tried to be nice.
We also had a few trips booked. We had Amsterdam Paris and ibiza…
I actually spoke to one of his family members before we went to Amsterdam to try and get them to persuade him not to go, but there wasn’t much she could do.
We went to Amsterdam to which I avoided much to do with him to be honest. It was only a few days which was overly and done with. You read all about it anyways.
So back to ibiza, you’ve heard the background. This is just a taste of the Nasty person Ashley is. I couldn’t even begin to tell you the half of it. For those of you that know me or him you’ve probably heard a dabble of it before anyways!
In ibiza baby!!! We have a few heavy nights to start with. A few hello kitties and some booger sugar followed by balloons… Our first day out we end up in the middle of the ocean partying on the sea whilst the sun set with a huge group of stags! Absolutely amazing!
This seemed to just be the start of an amazing holiday! We met some amazing workers, amazing groups of people. Everyone from last year was here and more!
Man I love this island!
Anyways so after quite a few heavy days and feeling slightly sorry for ourself we check into Ushuaia beach hotel. Yes! The best hotel on the island and my god what a cost it came with but fuck it! You only live once right?!
I had a pretty heavy night before and wanted to get a little rest before the night out.
Took to the amazing triple King whatever the fuck it was! Was huge!
Alarm goes off about 11.30 pm and I’m awake! I’m ready to seize the night! After all we are in ibiza and it’s just warming up!
Trying to wake ash, he’s not having any of it.
Doesn’t want to get up, doesn’t want to do anything: fine by me, I’ll go do it by myself ? but apparently that isn’t right either.
Well this is where he then starts to bitch at me, in ALl honesty I couldn’t tell you half the stuff he was saying because I genuinely switch off when he talks ? he just irritates me. He’s like a rotting fish.
Because I wanted to go party I’m a bad person apparently with a drug problem ? what?! Hahaha bellend.
So yeah he goes on and on and I just get more and more bored again for some reason he goes on to say how my mother doesn’t love me ?and I have no friends apparently… I think he gets his life and mine mixed up sometimes ?
We anyways because I wasn’t rising to him he just seemed to get nastier and nastier so I got up and had a little wash any for my makeup and hair done and wondered back to my other hotel! Yay! Peace and quite!
So in this process he brings up one of my friends, now I don’t have many close friends specially not girls, but recently I met this girl who no lie is my better half! She is just a gem!
I introduced Ashley and her a little while ago and Ashley hated her.
She really wasn’t very well when they met but she was still herself and polite! Just a little poorly! She’s ones of these girls ( like me) that takes no shit.
You don’t fuck with her and she doesn’t fuck with you. She’s not going to sugar coat shit!
She didn’t have much to say on Ashley which isn’t a big deal because, well in all honesty no one likes him. Which is fine. I tired.
Anyways so half way through this argument in Ushuaia he brings her up! ?
Nothing rattles me at all, nothing. But he mentioned her.
I actually feel like she’s more family than anyone’s I’ve met, and he’s never managed to rattle me before.
She is a fantastic person, this girl is a single mum with the best fucking child you will ever meet. A complete reflection on her! I’ve never met a woman so young with a child so well behaved, polite, perfect lil man!
So when he turns and says to me “you’ll end up like her one day alone with a kid in a council house” ??
Mate! This little cunt is going down! I hope I fucking do end up like her! This woman has her shit together
She isn’t a council estate whore she’s the most independent spot on caring fascinating intelligent woman I’ve ever met!
I’ve never felt the need to say anything back to him when he’s been on one but this time I had to I turned and said to him
“She’s a better person than you ever will be” as I left the room and my god the queen flipped! Within minutes of me leaving the room he has text her saying I had been bitching about her and had slept with her bf! Yes! Seriously! I couldn’t believe this little fuck.
You all know about my sex life here so you’d all have heard about it if I had ?
I know he was trying to destroy the friendship I think it’s because it’s the first girl I’ve ever been such good friends with! He hates the fact I’ve spent the last few months with her, I think he genuinely pooped a blood vessel in his brain the first time he saw pictures of us on a night out together!
But anyways guys this was the bust up in ibiza!
It’s a little cut and shut because I just have sooo much to tell everyone about everything! It’s been months! I promise to get up to date!!!